Listening Quotes

Most popular listening quotes

Conversation is a verbal exchange of 90% talking and 10% listening.

conversation

No man would listen to you if he didn't know it was his turn next. - E. W. Howe quote.
No man would listen to you if he didn't know it was his turn next.

conversation

The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is waiting. - Fran Lebowitz quote.
The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is waiting.

conversation

There is nothing like listening to show you that the world outside your head is different from the one inside your head. - Thornton Wilder quote.
There is nothing like listening to show you that the world outside your head is different from the one inside your head.
If you really listen, you will hear people repeating themselves. You will hear their pleading nature or their attacking nature or their asserting nature. - Gertrude Stein quote.
If you really listen, you will hear people repeating themselves. You will hear their pleading nature or their attacking nature or their asserting nature.

human nature

Everything has been said before, but since nobody listens we have to keep going back and saying it all again. - André Gide quote.
Everything has been said before, but since nobody listens we have to keep going back and saying it all again.

philosophy

The quieter you become the more you can hear.
When you talk you only say something that you already know; when you listen you learn what someone else knows.
A good listener is like a catcher in baseball. He keeps tossing the ball back for you to pitch. - Franklin P. Jones quote.
A good listener is like a catcher in baseball. He keeps tossing the ball back for you to pitch.
The reason we have two ears and only one tongue is so we may listen more and talk less. - Diogenes quote.
The reason we have two ears and only one tongue is so we may listen more and talk less.
From listening comes wisdom and from speaking repentance.

holding your tongue

The first duty of love is to listen. - Paul Tillich quote.
The first duty of love is to listen.

love parenting relationships

No one ever listened himself out of a job. - Calvin Coolidge quote.
No one ever listened himself out of a job.
Give every man thy ear but few thy voice. - William Shakespeare quote.
Give every man thy ear but few thy voice.

holding your tongue

An open ear is the only believable sign of an open heart.
Listening is a very dangerous thing. If one listens, one may be convinced. - Edward Forster quote.
Listening is a very dangerous thing. If one listens, one may be convinced.
All speech, written or spoken, is a dead language, until it finds a willing and prepared hearer. - Robert Louis Stevenson quote.
All speech, written or spoken, is a dead language, until it finds a willing and prepared hearer.

speech words

In a man's family, respect and listening are the source of harmony. - Gautama Buddha quote.
In a man's family, respect and listening are the source of harmony.

family respect

The greatest gift you can give another is the purity of your attention.

Attention dealing with people

The most called-upon prerequisite of a friend is an accessible ear. - Maya Angelou quote.
The most called-upon prerequisite of a friend is an accessible ear.

friendship

It's not always easy to listen. Sometimes it's more comfortable to play deaf, put on the Walkman and not listen to anyone. So easily we replace listening with email, messaging, and "chat," and in this way we deprive ourselves... of faces, looks, and embraces. - Pope Francis quote.
It's not always easy to listen. Sometimes it's more comfortable to play deaf, put on the Walkman and not listen to anyone. So easily we replace listening with email, messaging, and "chat," and in this way we deprive ourselves... of faces, looks, and embraces.
How many problems would we avoid in life if we learned to listen? - Pope Francis quote.
How many problems would we avoid in life if we learned to listen?
Listening is also the capacity to share questions and the search [for answers]. - Pope Francis quote.
Listening is also the capacity to share questions and the search [for answers].
The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said. - Peter Drucker quote.
The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said.

management communication

Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk. - Doug Larson quote.
Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk.

wisdom talking

The golden rule of friendship is to listen to others as you would have them listen to you.

friendship

Skillful listening is the best remedy for loneliness, loquaciousness and laryngitis. - William Arthur Ward quote.
Skillful listening is the best remedy for loneliness, loquaciousness and laryngitis.
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery. - Dr. Joyce Brothers quote.
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
There is no greater loan than a sympathetic ear.

sympathy

In order that all men may be taught to speak truth, it is necessary that all likewise should learn to hear it. - Samuel Johnson quote.
In order that all men may be taught to speak truth, it is necessary that all likewise should learn to hear it.
Talk to a man about himself and he will listen for hours. - Benjamin Disraeli quote.
Talk to a man about himself and he will listen for hours.
There is always hope when people are forced to listen to both sides. - John Stuart Mill quote.
There is always hope when people are forced to listen to both sides.
A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while he knows something. - Wilson Mizner quote.
A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while he knows something.
Listen, or thy tongue will keep thee deaf.
— American proverb

proverbs American proverbs holding your tongue

No one really listens to anyone else. Try it for a while, and you'll see why.
Listening to both sides of a story will convince you that there is more to a story than both sides.
Sainthood emerges when you can listen to someone's tale of woe and not respond with a description of your own.

sympathy holding your tongue

Most people would rather defend to the death your right to say it than listen to it. - Robert Breault quote.
Most people would rather defend to the death your right to say it than listen to it.
To entertain some people all you have to do is listen.
Two great talkers will not travel far together.

holding your tongue proverbs Spanish proverbs

Deep listening and loving speech are wonderful instruments to help us arrive at the kind of understanding we all need as a basis for appropriate action. You listen deeply for only one purpose — to allow the other person to empty his or her heart. This is already an act of relieving suffering. To stop any suffering, no matter how small, is a great action of peace. The path to end suffering depends on your understanding and your capacity to act without causing harm or further suffering. This is acting with compassion, your best protection. - Thích Nhất Hạnh quote.
Deep listening and loving speech are wonderful instruments to help us arrive at the kind of understanding we all need as a basis for appropriate action. You listen deeply for only one purpose — to allow the other person to empty his or her heart. This is already an act of relieving suffering. To stop any suffering, no matter how small, is a great action of peace. The path to end suffering depends on your understanding and your capacity to act without causing harm or further suffering. This is acting with compassion, your best protection.

buddhist

When you know how to listen everyone is the guru. - Ram Dass quote.
When you know how to listen everyone is the guru.

wisdom

When people talk listen completely. Don't be thinking what you're going to say. Most people never listen. - Ernest Hemingway quote.
When people talk listen completely. Don't be thinking what you're going to say. Most people never listen.
The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer. - Henry David Thoreau quote.
The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.

compliments Attention

No siren did ever so charm the ear of the listener as the listening ear has charmed the soul of the siren.

charm

The opposite of talking isn't listening.  The opposite of talking is waiting.

conversation talking

But oh! The blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearlessly on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely. - Dinah Mulock quote.
But oh! The blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearlessly on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely.

friendship

If you love listening you will learn; if you lend an ear, wisdom will be yours.
— Apocrypha—Ecclesiasticus 6:33

biblical

Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person they are almost indistinguishable.
Listening is harvesting what is in the speaker's mind.
— Teaching and Researching: Listening
Good listeners don't interrupt—ever—unless the house is on fire.
It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of supersophisticated communication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners. - Erma Bombeck quote.
It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of supersophisticated communication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners.
Erma Bombeck If Life is a Bowl of Cherries, What Am I Doing in the Pits?
Were we as eloquent as angels, yet should we please some men, some women, and some children, much more by listening, than by talking. - C. C. Colton quote.
Were we as eloquent as angels, yet should we please some men, some women, and some children, much more by listening, than by talking.
The hearing ear is always found close to the speaking tongue. - Ralph Waldo Emerson quote.
The hearing ear is always found close to the speaking tongue.
A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him. - Brendan Francis quote.
A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him.

love men and women

All of man's life among his kind is nothing other than a battle to seize the ears of others. - Milan Kundera quote.
All of man's life among his kind is nothing other than a battle to seize the ears of others.
A good listener is one who helps us overhear ourselves.
People sinking into self-pity and depression are dreary, but they can't get out of it by themselves.  So every now and then, just sit there and listen, and listen, and listen.  You're paying your membership dues in the human race. - Barbara Walters quote.
People sinking into self-pity and depression are dreary, but they can't get out of it by themselves.  So every now and then, just sit there and listen, and listen, and listen.  You're paying your membership dues in the human race.
Barbara Walters How to Talk With Practically Anybody About Practically Anything
Two evils, of almost equal weight, may befall the man of erudition: never to be listened to, and to be listened to always. - W. S. Landor quote.
Two evils, of almost equal weight, may befall the man of erudition: never to be listened to, and to be listened to always.
To be able to listen—really, wholly passively, self-effacingly listen—without presupposing, classifying, improving, controverting, evaluating, approving or disapproving, without dueling with what is being said, without rehearsing the rebuttal in advance, without free-associating to portions of what is being said so that succeeding portions are not heard at all—such listening is rare. - Abraham Maslow quote.
To be able to listen—really, wholly passively, self-effacingly listen—without presupposing, classifying, improving, controverting, evaluating, approving or disapproving, without dueling with what is being said, without rehearsing the rebuttal in advance, without free-associating to portions of what is being said so that succeeding portions are not heard at all—such listening is rare.
You can listen like a blank wall or like a splendid auditorium where every sound comes back fuller and richer.
I have discovered that most people have no one to talk to, no one, that is, who really wants to listen.  When it does at last dawn on a man that you really want to hear about his business, the look that comes over his face is something to see. - Walker Percy quote.
I have discovered that most people have no one to talk to, no one, that is, who really wants to listen.  When it does at last dawn on a man that you really want to hear about his business, the look that comes over his face is something to see.
If speaking is silver, then listening is gold.
— Turkish proverb

Turkish proverbs proverbs

A man who listens because he has nothing to say can hardly be a source of inspiration.  The only listening that counts is that of the talker who alternately absorbs and expresses ideas. - Agnes Repplier quote.
A man who listens because he has nothing to say can hardly be a source of inspiration.  The only listening that counts is that of the talker who alternately absorbs and expresses ideas.
One of the best ways to persuade others is with your ears—by listening to them.

persuasion

Listening is a sacred art.  Deep listening is miraculous for both listener and speaker.
When we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold and expand.  Ideas actually begin to grow within us and come to life.  You know how if a person laughs at your jokes you become funnier and funnier, and if he does not, every tiny little joke in you weazens up and dies. Well, that is the principle of it.
Not listening is probably the commonest unkindness of married life, and one that creates — more devastatingly than an eternity of forgotten birthdays and misguided Christmas gifts — an atmosphere of not loving and not caring. - Judith Viorst quote.
Not listening is probably the commonest unkindness of married life, and one that creates — more devastatingly than an eternity of forgotten birthdays and misguided Christmas gifts — an atmosphere of not loving and not caring.
People sinking into self-pity and depression are dreary, but they can't get out of it by themselves. So every now and then, just sit there and listen, and listen, and listen. You're paying your membership dues in the human race.
Barbara Walters How to Talk With Practically Anybody About Practically Anything

self-pity

Listen or thy tongue will keep thee deaf.

Indian proverbs proverbs life

To speak is craft; to listen is art.